I think you are right.
I have known women who would literally chant "no, no, no" despite being on top and in total control of the engagement.
So9
Go ya one bettah. Used to date a girl whose big thrill was being forced to do various normal acts. It's a variation on the handcuffing fetish, I s'pose. It was that way every single time. She'd have a list of several no-no's, but being forced to do them really tripped her trigger.
And there are a lot of women like her.
Michael