"I have known women who would literally chant "no, no, no" despite being on top and in total control of the engagement." Go ya one bettah. Used to date a girl whose big thrill was being forced to do various normal acts. It's a variation on the handcuffing fetish, I s'pose. It was that way every single time. She'd have a list of several no-no's, but being forced to do them really tripped her trigger.
And there are a lot of women like her.
Michael
The heterosexual sex act is an act of submission for the female - by default: her body is being penetrated. You can talk about equality all day, but every slang term related to sexual intercourse recognizes this truth. It doesn't mean men hate women or that women don't enjoy sex, it's just a reality of our physical natures that women are psycho-biologically wired to respond to.
But feminists absolutely cannot deal with this kind of reality, so they are concocting all of these bizarre and vile laws to try to make it go away.