Because they are too busy looking for a reason to call all women money grubbing whores based on the few they've seen to make them feel better about not having one. Unfortunately, the truth is they are either attracted to self centered women on some level, or they are self centered themselves. -flame suit on-
No flames from me. I've tried to find good women, and since my divorce 12 years ago, I've dated 20 different women, and none of them made the grade. A couple came close, but wouldn't accept what I had to offer. It's frustrating, because I've met many other women who have turned me off with their attitudes toward men, their chip on their shoulder, and their general "bitchy-ness", and I never got past the first meeting. I realized after the fact that a few of them were clones of my ex, so I have worked hard to eradicate any desire for that type of woman.
I haven't given up, but it's slim pickin's out there. The most often heard comment I've gotten from women is that I'll make "some woman" very happy. It sounds like they're saying I'm too good to be true. I don't believe that for a second! I have my "man days" like anyone else, I can be a stubborn, obstinate, know-it-all. but I do love women, I do listen, and I do try to give them what they say they want, even though they rarely do say what they want. They say the opposite!