[mattdono]

God help you if you can't read her mind, even when she doesn't know what she wants.

This actually may be the biggest reason for discord and/or disagreement when it comes to house chores.

[MineralMan]

"God help you if you can't read her mind, even when she doesn't know what she wants.

This actually may be the biggest reason for discord and/or disagreement when it comes to house chores."

Could be, for sure. Compatibility is a tough thing. I'm no neatnik, so I was pleased to find that my wife-to-be was not either. How did I figure that out? I looked at the place she lived before we got married. Both of us seem content with a reasonably clean place, but neither of us requires white-glove clean.

It's just one of the elements of compatibility.