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If I am an in-shape, well-paid, house-cleaning, caring dad and loving husband who cooks at least 3 days a week and puts the lid down, isn't that enough?

Nope. When my daughter was 4ish she used to say "NOOOOO! Do it the way I want!!!" when she couldn't explain what she needed.

You're a guy, you're supposed to KNOW exactly what your darling wife wants, and provide it.

God help you if you can't read her mind, even when she doesn't know what she wants.

God help you if what she wants violates the laws of nature. That's not HER problem. It's YOURS.

OTOH, she WILL know that whatever you've done isn't good enough

[mattdono]

God help you if you can't read her mind, even when she doesn't know what she wants.

This actually may be the biggest reason for discord and/or disagreement when it comes to house chores.