[cinFLA]

But, I would know that yes,what he did was wrong but I shouldered a BIG part of the responsibility for what happened going to a strangers hotel room and engaging in sex with that stranger.

Even if you said "NO" and he and his buddies held you down for his deed?

Some women here have even said that if the agreement was to use protection and if he used force to do the deed WITHOUT a condome the women should not complain. Duh.

[riri]

Even if you said "NO" and he and his buddies held you down for his deed?

Well, again that's different. That's rape. But, I don't think anybody is claiming this is what happened.

Even if you said FWIW, I could care less about Kobe Bryant. I detest sports and prior to this I could not have picked him out of a line- up of 3 men.

I would hate to be a man in this climate. Especially a wealthy man.