Well, again that's different. That's rape. But, I don't think anybody is claiming this is what happened.
Even if you said FWIW, I could care less about Kobe Bryant. I detest sports and prior to this I could not have picked him out of a line- up of 3 men.
I would hate to be a man in this climate. Especially a wealthy man.
I am a man and I have never had this problem. But then again I am not in the habit of running around on my wife.