If I went up to a strangers room and agreed to have sex with this complete stranger, which I would hope I would have the good sense to never do but, anyway. Say I did this and things got a little weird. It wasn't the type of sex I had in mind. Even if he was a mega millionare superstar, I would not go crying rape. I would feel degraded, disgusted and all the the other assorted feelings that would go along with that type of thing.
But, I would know that yes,what he did was wrong but I shouldered a BIG part of the responsibility for what happened going to a strangers hotel room and engaging in sex with that stranger.
I don't think I'd be scarred for life from such an incident. Now, if someone jumped me in the bank parking lot that is an entirely different story.
But, I would know that yes,what he did was wrong but I shouldered a BIG part of the responsibility for what happened going to a strangers hotel room and engaging in sex with that stranger. Even if you said "NO" and he and his buddies held you down for his deed?
Some women here have even said that if the agreement was to use protection and if he used force to do the deed WITHOUT a condome the women should not complain. Duh.