The "non-religion based reasons," which you decline to state, could probably be equally applied to heterosexual conduct.
You may want Uncle Sam peeping in your bedroom to make sure that you don't do anything too disruptive to the society's pristine social fabric, but I think my privacy is worth more than that.
I'll pass on the bedroom police, thanks anyway.
Let's agree on this, you stay out of my bedroom and I'll stay out of your church. The government can stay out of both. I think that's a fair enough solution.
Trace