You're not rambling. But what do you say to the guy who's been so burned by these stay at home women who've screwed around on him behind his back, ran him into the ground financially...and lied to about the whole thing...after he's been out struggling to make ends meet and support the family? His young son, btw, chose to live with him, not his mother.
Speaking of selfless, this same fellow goes on to another relationship, meets who he "thought" was a very nice lady with two boys. She has a mental breakdown, and dumps the boys. She wants no part of them. Or him. He takes the boys into his home, and now is raising 3 boys, two of whom aren't on his own.
Can one blame him for not wanting to get involved with another woman again?
These (literally) crazy women lead a path of distruction, only to leave the rest of us honest ones scratching our heads thinking that it's not just the men who get screwed...
distruction=destruction
brain cells are circling the drain....