On a more personal level, what they do IN PRIVATE is between them and GOD. It is none of my concern, but as I said before, when they take their BEHAVIOR into the public arena, then it becomes everybody's problem. It isn't a matter of them pretending. That's like saying that keeping a drunk driver from behind the wheel of a car when he's drunk is making him pretend he isn't drunk. If you can't see the difference, then it is because you choose not to.