On a more personal level, what they do IN PRIVATE is between them and GOD. It is none of my concern, but as I said before, when they take their BEHAVIOR into the public arena, then it becomes everybody's problem. It isn't a matter of them pretending. That's like saying that keeping a drunk driver from behind the wheel of a car when he's drunk is making him pretend he isn't drunk. If you can't see the difference, then it is because you choose not to.
The urge to save humanity is almost always only a false-face for the urge to rule it. - H.L. Mencken
when they take their BEHAVIOR into the public arena, then it becomes everybody's problem.
What behavior are they taking into the public? I don't know where you live, but I live in a big city and I've never seen a gay couple fornicating in public.