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Merchant defends spanking
The Charlotte Observer ^ | 7-9-2003 | KATHRYN WELLIN

Posted on 07/11/2003 8:12:26 AM PDT by Cagey

Store owner says boy was teach parrot profanity

Staff Writer

A clock-store owner will appear in court Monday on an assault charge for spanking a boy he says was teaching one of his store's parrots to cuss.

"I think I can protect my property against vandalism, as long as I don't use a gun," said William Soper, co-owner of Clock World on West Broad Street downtown. "A pop on the bottom is non-lethal."

Sheree Bustle, mother of the spanked boy, sees it differently. She called the police to file charges. "If you've got a problem with a kid abusing a bird, he could've handled it differently," she said.

On June 7, Soper was inside his shop repairing clocks when he heard squawks and shouts of an expletive over and over. As always, one of his eight parrots was sitting out front, taking in the sun and air.

That Saturday, it was Sparky, a female Green-wing, age 6. The sign on the white, wrought-iron cage reads: "SPARKY WILL BITE."

Sparky probably wouldn't bite, Soper said. The sign was "protection," but did not stop brothers Chris and Matthew Bustle from at least talking with her.

The Bustles, Soper said, were spitting on Sparky, something both boys deny.

Soper said he grabbed Matthew, 9, by the shirt, spanked his rear and told the boys to stay away if they couldn't behave.

Chris, 12, said Sparky was cursing first.

"I said its name 30 million times, and it said it back, and it said hello and all this stuff, and then it automatically said the f-word," Chris Bustle said.

All he did, he said, was egg her on.

According to Soper, Sparky had never used the expletive before.

When it comes to child-rearing and exotic birds, parents and bird owners can be people of a different feather. To Soper, 64, the children's behavior is indicative of parents today not supervising or disciplining their children.

Sheree Bustle said Soper had no right to lay hands on her child and should have called her or her husband. "God, I'd get child abuse at home, but he can get away with that?" she said.

If convicted of the misdemeanor in Iredell district court, Soper could face up to 60 days in jail and a fine.

For Soper, protecting his $13,000 pet justified his actions. "I think if they're old enough to be roaming the streets by themselves, they're old enough to be punished," he said.

At the family's home north of Statesville, Sheree Bustle said this week: "The bird is out there on the street unsupervised at all times."

Matthew was not hurt but said he was scared when grabbed by the shirt and spanked. "My feet were just kicking, trying to get away," he said.

Sparky, too, is cowed. She and the other parrots now spend their days inside to keep them safe from harassment, Soper said. The unfamiliar, indoor cage is stressing Sparky, he said. Lately, she hasn't been eating well.

And of the obscenity? Not a squawk, Soper said. That does not mean it won't slip out when he least expects it. Parrots can live in captivity for 80 years, and repeatedly heard words do not get erased.

"It's worse than graffiti," he said. "You can't wash it out."




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1 posted on 07/11/2003 8:12:27 AM PDT by Cagey
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To: Cagey
He's not swearing. He's pining for the %*^&$* fjords.
2 posted on 07/11/2003 8:16:39 AM PDT by KarlInOhio (Paranoia is when you realize that tin foil hats just focus the mind control beams.)
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3 posted on 07/11/2003 8:17:10 AM PDT by Support Free Republic (Your support keeps Free Republic going strong!)
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To: Cagey
When my father was a child during the depression, if a child told his mother that a shop keeper spanked them, the mother would start spanking the child, too -- no questions asked -- under the assumption that the shop keeper had a good reason for spanking the child. That may have erred too much on the side of adults but we err too much in the other direction these days.
4 posted on 07/11/2003 8:20:06 AM PDT by Question_Assumptions
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To: KarlInOhio
LOL! And, on the very first post! You even beat the Ad Man.
5 posted on 07/11/2003 8:20:26 AM PDT by Cagey
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To: Cagey
I'm glad the guy did it and is not apologetic. The mother is just defensive about her little darling getting a swat because she knows he deserved it. Instead of calling the police she should have called the guy and thanked him. She mentioned something about being accused of abuse if she had done that a t home--I don't think so. It's not like he whipped his bare butt with a belt.
6 posted on 07/11/2003 8:22:16 AM PDT by beaversmom (Celebrating May 5th and all days with an American Flag)
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To: Cagey
Well, as a gret American philosopher, or one of her ghostwriters, once said, "It takes a village to raise a child."
7 posted on 07/11/2003 8:23:14 AM PDT by Indianer (Where is John Galt?)
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To: Cagey
The shop keeper did nothing wrong. After all, "it takes a village", right?
8 posted on 07/11/2003 8:24:53 AM PDT by Greenpees (Coulda Shoulda Woulda)
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To: Cagey
Maybe the kid (punk?) should be arrested for animal abuse?
9 posted on 07/11/2003 8:25:18 AM PDT by LooneyTick (you have to be tough if your going to be stupid)
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To: Question_Assumptions
Yup. If either my brother or I had reported anything like that at home, we also would have gotten a second punishment for the same reason. My mother made that particularly clear when she got elected to the school board when I was I high school. NO expectation of lenience! They didn't tolerate getting away with stuff like kids do these days. Sure didn't hurt either of us and I'm NOT traumatized for life.
10 posted on 07/11/2003 8:27:42 AM PDT by medic
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To: Question_Assumptions
Well, I'm not a big fan of strangers spanking my children. Let them tell me what my kid did wrong and then I'll do the spanking. That's my job, not theirs.
11 posted on 07/11/2003 8:27:48 AM PDT by Cagey
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To: Cagey
"Polly wants an f'ing cracker!"
12 posted on 07/11/2003 8:28:02 AM PDT by TexasRepublic
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To: beaversmom
I think he should have spanked the boys' mother instead :-)
13 posted on 07/11/2003 8:28:10 AM PDT by Labyrinthos
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To: Cagey
Sounds like the little brats didnt get half what they deserved.

14 posted on 07/11/2003 8:29:31 AM PDT by Prysson
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To: Cagey
I hope we hear how this is resolved.
15 posted on 07/11/2003 8:33:16 AM PDT by disclaimer
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To: Indianer
Unfortunately, this is the village that Hillary would like:
16 posted on 07/11/2003 8:34:51 AM PDT by beaversmom (Celebrating May 5th and all days with an American Flag)
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To: Cagey
I think that bird needs some company . . . how about going to Parrots Without Partners?
17 posted on 07/11/2003 8:35:37 AM PDT by laweeks
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To: beaversmom
Ah, what are those kids doing in this picture. I guess it didn't do any harm, right?
18 posted on 07/11/2003 8:38:39 AM PDT by gathersnomoss
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To: Cagey
First off, as for the kid, if there's damage to the bird's value from this, pay up.

This merchant shouldn't go to jail, but should get a civil infraction ticket for this. He should have gotten a number and called the parents. Let the parent's handle it.

If I was 12, 13, etc, and some stranger put a hand on me, I would likely have hit the guy right back, and would have been dead right in doing so. Self-defense.

19 posted on 07/11/2003 8:42:41 AM PDT by Dan from Michigan ("Crashed and Burned, eh gungrabbers?")
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To: beaversmom
I'm glad the guy did it and is not apologetic.

Exactly. Were it my sons, I'd expect him to swat 'em. Then, when they got home, I'd inform them they had just volunteered to clean his birds' cages for the next month.

20 posted on 07/11/2003 8:43:24 AM PDT by FourPeas
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