You'll be flamed horribly for your post, fawn. Forewarning. Some will twist and pick your words to benefit their personal rage.
My sister is going through a divorce. Her soon to be ex doesn't want anything to do with his daughter (very sad situation) and my sister is *not* seeking child support.
Thanks for the warning - but I already foresaw that - after reading their previous posts!
I always wonder how my "ex" tells the story, when all the other guys at work are complaining about how their wives took them to the cleaners!