[lizma]

Either they had to be noticed by doing something outraguous or they were just loud.

That's what I've seen. A desire to shock others. Adding inappropriate sexual comments in simple conversations, doing inappropriate things.

Maybe, if there is a genetic component, it has to do with a personality type that has this need be be noticed at all costs and being gay helps fulfill this?

Who knows. Either way I don't want to lower the value of marriage in this society for them. (No fault divorce has done enough already.)

[Bigg Red]

Maybe, if there is a genetic component, it has to do with a personality type that has this need be be noticed at all costs and being gay helps fulfill this?

^^^
You are right. Same Sex Attraction Disorder is a form of extreme narcissism.