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ditto,,,,,,,,

That being said what would a 38 year old lady see in a teenage boy?

When I went though my divorce my son was 14. You've never seen manipulation, until you watch your wife's buds flirt with a fourteen year old to manipulate him into backing his mother's positions, with the idea that if he just plays along he can remain 'close to the sexpot'. While I'm not intimating that anything actually happened, yet I'm not 100% sure of that, I saw for myself what was happening and new exactly what they were trying to accomplish.

It was so prominent that my son felt guilty about it even ten years after the events. One of the women was married which caused all sorts of moral internal conflicts with my son who was good friends with the woman's husband. At one point after I was sufficiently out of the picture, she cut the flirtation off cold turkey. Once again, this only served to make my son feel all the guiltier, as if it had only been his fault all along. Some of it was. Most of it wasn't. He was being manipulated. And at that age I'm not about to place the blame solely on him.

One day my son came to me and talked about this incident ten years after the fact. He appologized for letting one of these people manipulate him. He also explained what had taken place. I'm still not confident he felt comfortable enough to spill it all.

Anyone that thinks men are the only leacherous group should rethink the issue.

I don't think women understand how much they screw young men up by acting this way. Heaping endless praise on the young man in groups and flirting with them individually when you're married can come to no good end.

That being said what would a 38 year old lady see in a teenage boy?

5 or 6 consecutive quickies, then some milk and cookies?