[Mister Magoo]

Oh, come on. If a man doesn't want to have sex with you before marriage, he isn't going to want to have sex with you after marriage. I've known two guys who advocated celibacy for religious reasons through college and afterward, and both ultimately acknowledged they were homosexuals. If this guy was a heterosexual, believe me, he would have found a woman to marry.

[Pan_Yans Wife]

Your post only strengthens the argument that women should not have sex, outside of marriage, with homosexual men! LOL

[mountaineer]

If a man doesn't want to have sex with you before marriage, he isn't going to want to have sex with you after marriage.

There's a difference between wanting to have sex before marriage and choosing to honor God and one another by waiting to have sex until after marriage. A person of character can choose not to act on every desire that comes his way, if to do so would be contrary to what he believes is "right" behavior.

[supercat]

Oh, come on. If a man doesn't want to have sex with you before marriage, he isn't going to want to have sex with you after marriage. I've known two guys who advocated celibacy for religious reasons through college and afterward, and both ultimately acknowledged they were homosexuals. If this guy was a heterosexual, believe me, he would have found a woman to marry.

If my wife were still alive, she'd rebut that claim.

[FourPeas]

He didn't say he didn't want to have sex before marriage. He said he'd decided not to have sex before marriage. Big difference. Very big. The first is a natural urge; the second is a Man exercising his free choice to be more than simply an animal behaving as such.

[Tall_Texan]

If a man doesn't want to have sex with you before marriage, he isn't going to want to have sex with you after marriage.

There's your mistake. There is a difference between "wanting to" and actaully doing so. I've *wanted* to have sex with several women but I've always resisted the temptation and am still single. Maybe she would have said no and maybe I didn't want to have to deal with the rejection or perhaps I would have left her feeling insulted that all I really wanted was sex when I actually wanted more.

You're worldview is the common one where sex *is* the endgame for men. I'm not that way and never have been. I want to give and receive love, not just have sex but it's become difficult to find even women who grasp that concept.

[CounterCounterCulture]

If a man doesn't want to have sex with you before marriage, he isn't going to want to have sex with you after marriage. I've known two guys who advocated celibacy for religious reasons through college and afterward, and both ultimately acknowledged they were homosexuals.

Yes, your scientific sample size of TWO is ample evidence.

I talked to two people today, both said they were voting for Bush. Bush therefore wins 100% of the vote. Stunning landslide.

[Chemist_Geek]

If this guy was a heterosexual, believe me, he would have found a woman to marry.

Not true. I've been looking for three years now and there isn't a one to be found.