[Pan_Yans Wife]

I disagree. How heartbroken would you be to learn that the love of your life dumped YOU, because you couldn't perform due to cancer, MS, etc? How very sad. I would think that the love for your spouse would trump any sexual experience, and that you will love them while they suffered through a debilitating disease... and you should be able to ask the same of your spouse. This is a MARRIAGE, that is bound not only in legal terms but by the heart... otherwise why get married?

[connectthedots]

I disagree. How heartbroken would you be to learn that the love of your life dumped YOU, because you couldn't perform due to cancer, MS, etc? How very sad. I would think that the love for your spouse would trump any sexual experience, and that you will love them while they suffered through a debilitating disease... and you should be able to ask the same of your spouse. This is a MARRIAGE, that is bound not only in legal terms but by the heart... otherwise why get married?

As a man, I agree, but there are many other ways to have sex than just intercourse, so in most cases, even illness or physical handicaps do not preclude a satisfying sex life.