Silly analogy. If you wanted to say that heterosexuals can remain virgins, then you might be on to something.
"We control our feelings. They don't control us."
There is no point in controlling feelings that aren't wrong.
That's just the point. Any sexual attraction to the same sex is wrong. It is unhealthy, abnormal, dysfunctional, perverse and always the result of mental sickness or trauma.
These attractions must be cured for the health of the sufferer and of society. Just like kleptomania must be cured.