I don't wish to "make" anything of it - I just want you to clarify yourself. Are you saying that to have mean unreasonable thoughts about someone is morally equivalent to being a pedophile - whether they just "think" about it, visit sick websites, advise others how to do it, and/or do it themselves?
In my view (reality) the two are like comparing stealing penny candy and robbing old ladies out of their life savings while beating them up. Both are crimes, but can't compare morally.