Yes. There are bigots on both sides of the gay issue. No matter which side the bigot is on, the bigotry is equally evil.
Hey Jeff. According to the dictionary definitions that you posted I'm a Bigot. And proud of it.
In your other posts you say that I'll have to meet my fate in front of Almighty God. That's cool. God is the biggest bigot I know (or know of). He has no tolerance for any opinion other than his own. He says that homosexual behavior is an abomination that should not happen and that those who do it should be killed. He also says that those who are trapped in this lifestayle can get out if they choose to. God calls homosexual behavior totally a choice.
So. Since I'm bigotted exactly in the same way that God is bigotted. I guess I'm in some pretty good company.