[sweetliberty]

Again, you are allowing the man to abandon any responsibility for his sexual behavior. And the NOW hag feminazis do NOT speak for most women. They certainly do not speak for me and never did. And male or female the choices are made BEFORE there is a baby.

[dozer7]

"Again, you are allowing the man to abandon any responsibility for his sexual behavior."

My babe reel it in. Get a grip. The only responsible person is the Man. If you as woman are with out responsibility for your behaviour are you a good role model for a child or do you just wish to manage this miracle of creation as just a profit center. If I have read this wrong please help me through this difficult situation. Both parties can choose to keep it zipped. If your premis is true mine as a Male is the greater responsibilty. If so then as the more responsible partner allow me to take on the greater responsibility. Visit two weekends a month maybe once during the week and send me your money. I promise I won't get my nails done with your child support.

best regards

the dozer

[garbanzo]

Again, you are allowing the man to abandon any responsibility for his sexual behavior.

As I said before, with choices come responsibility. In this situation, given modern legalities, technologies, and social realities, the net balance of choices reside with the female. That's just the way it is. One hundred years ago say the balance of choices, and hence the balance of responsibility, resided mainly with the male. Now it's changed.

If men had a say in the reproductive choices of females then I'd agree that the male has more of a responsibility. But if it is up to the woman to decide if she wants to bear a child and she should accordingly take on the main responsibility.