[Hildy]

I'm not ashamed. If I had been, I wouldn't have had it. That was almost 25 years ago.

[onedoug]

...And what might have been....

[cake_crumb]

"I'm not ashamed. If I had been, I wouldn't have had it. That was almost 25 years ago."

So...the vast experience to which you elude is your own, singular experience? And this is meant to mean what, exactly?

[RAT Patrol]

So you never look at a 25 year old and wonder what your child would have looked like if he/she had lived?

[daisymae]

I can honestly say that it was one of the most depressing experiences I've ever had -- I still morn the loss of the little one who might have been. My husband forced me to have one more than 20 years ago. To make things worse he laughed about it and made fun of me in public. Needless to say he is no longer my husband -- he's someone else's problem. Poor dear.

Other women that I have spoken to about abortion feel the same way I do. The experience was horrible and painfully depressing.

[Palladin]

"I'm not ashamed. If I had been, I wouldn't have had it. That was almost 25 years ago."

I'm really sorry for you, Hildy, and for the loss of your child.

[arasina]

I'm not ashamed. If I had been, I wouldn't have had it. That was almost 25 years ago.

Want to tell us more? If you are not ashamed or sad about it, why not give some insight into WHY you feel the way you do? I'm interested, and I imagine others are as well.

[RightOnline]

"I'm not ashamed. If I had been, I wouldn't have had it. That was almost 25 years ago."

Trust me, darlin'........it sure as hell isn't something to trumpet. Not then........not now.

[goodieD]

I'm sad that you're not ashamed you had an innocent baby murdered, ripped from your own body because you didn't want it. You can't be human inside if you can allow that to happen without any regret. You have no soul.