[Calpernia]

Thank you for your concern. Please reread my post. I have NO hurt now. I did before but I over came that (especially since I'm married with children. Makes a BIG difference in the adoptee circle).

I shared my storie to lend a view of adotptees. My main focus should have been on what the mentally challenged face in the system. Was that not clear? What do I need to clarify?

[hocndoc]

I still don't understand why you would choose death for this child or for anyone who is not a danger to someone else.