[Pan_Yans Wife]

I agree with your post. Physical attraction is what kindles the spark and then keeps us interested.

I just wish that more young people would realize that if their partner isn't someone that they wish to marry, they should move on. Life is too short to stick with the wrong person, for the wrong reasons. Physical attraction shouldn't be the only reason why we are in a relationship.

[wardaddy]

Yes...yes...and yes.

i have seen particularly young women wait in vain on Peter Pan's who are simply using them.

I sort of did that myself in my early 20s admittedly.

I will warn my daughters about men like I was..lol

...had a woman do it to me too as well....what goes around comes around...she was so self obsessed though I'm glad I finally took the hint even though she didn't realize it and I moved on.

You know another caveat....beware of folks who only leave a bad relationship when they have a backup on standby. Everyone needs that little "time in the wilderness" to get a grasp.