[wardaddy]

Yes...yes...and yes.

i have seen particularly young women wait in vain on Peter Pan's who are simply using them.

I sort of did that myself in my early 20s admittedly.

I will warn my daughters about men like I was..lol

...had a woman do it to me too as well....what goes around comes around...she was so self obsessed though I'm glad I finally took the hint even though she didn't realize it and I moved on.

You know another caveat....beware of folks who only leave a bad relationship when they have a backup on standby. Everyone needs that little "time in the wilderness" to get a grasp.

[Pan_Yans Wife]

And, if we are all brutally honest, we realize that we KNOW if the other person is Mr or Mrs. Right.... within a very short period of time. If they aren't... it is time to say, "next", with no apologies. Move on to something else.

I also believe that your mate will come to you. If you are meant to be married, you will meet him or her. If not, keep moving on.

A bigger mistake is marrying the wrong person, while letting the right person slip away. Take responsibility for the people that you do associate with, be highly discriminating, and your chances of finding happiness are that much greater.