[Scothia]

I can not for the life of me , understand how people can look at themselves, and be 40, 50,60 pounds overweight and say this ok. It is a major drag when one partner stays in shape and the other lets themselves just keep expanding and then say...."You dont look at me anymore, or why dont we do it more often?"

Did your wife give birth to, nurse, and nurture your children?

Just thought I'd ask.

[Delbert]

yes we have one child, giving birth is no excuse..it is however an "easy out". I have a sister that has had 4 children and has 0 body fat and is an aerobics instructor. My other sister has had three kids and is in excellent shape. Because they work out and watch what they eat. The child thing doesnt really cut it, I know too many women who have kids and dont blimp out.