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Unbelievable. I never had the opinion that it is possible to "turn off" ones' sex drive in the first place. You invented that opinion for me. Now you're saying I must have the opinion you invented for me unless I can suggest else!

Irrational argument all the way around.

For the record, I can not have the opinions I don't have without your permission not to have them.

You're debating with yourself when you make up both sides of a discussion.

By the way, Lorianne, you don't answer direct questions put to you, so maybe some posters have no choice but to try to put some order into your statements.

I have waited for your answer to someone else's post #994. That person asked a quite appropriate and apropos question. You failed to answer it.

I also posted a general question in my post #995, which you also ignored.

Admittedly, you can answer or not, you are under no obligation (ha ha) to do so, but your failure to answer post #994 does not rise to level of fairness.

Unbelievable. I never had the opinion that it is possible to "turn off" ones' sex drive in the first place. You invented that opinion for me.

I simply read what you wrote, and followed it (a very short distance) to the obvious conclusion.

Now you're saying I must have the opinion you invented for me unless I can suggest else!

No, I'm saying I cannot perceive you having any other opinion unless you give me a reason to believe you have another one.

From what you've written, I conclude that your view is that if one spouse doesn't want sex, the other should not insist on getting it - i.e. one may simply deny satisfying the need of the other, and the other should shut up and "turn it off". That's how I - and several others present - interpret what you wrote. We would be happy to see you express/imply a different opinion, and eagerly await your expression thereof.

Don't get angry at me, tell me your opinion clearly.