In general, churches that talk about the end times stuff also remind us that, if we are in Christ, we have no need to fear (e.g. the rapture).
Not sure where your argument is coming from. Perhaps you've experienced some church or churches who don't teach the entire story as it were.
I've always been a member of the conservative Missouri Synod Lutheran church. We don't take kindly to hysterical apocalyptic rants from the pulpit about the end of the world.
Our pastors do prepare us for the day we meet our maker, but with faith, hope and calm, not dire, emotional and scary threats of an impending Armageddon.
Leni