We clearly agree on the power of love to cast out fear!
I should have explained my statement better. To sum it up, I am saying that God is the one who makes the marriage. He was marrying couples long before there were any laws, Jewish priests, Catholic priests, Baptist preachers or civil authorities.
If the marriage is of God, the parties know it and would not deign to break it. If the marriage is of man, IMHO FWIW, it isnt worth the paper it is written on and ought be dissolved (in favor of submitting to His will instead of self-will.)
Agreed. And I'm sorry I could have explained mine better also. When I spoke, "committing to her for life , I was speaking of man law (paper) marriage. The depth of my commitment to her, I already knew. Love.