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'The Best Possible Life' (Dowd)
The New York Times ^ | 04/06/03 | Maureen Dowd

Posted on 04/05/2003 2:21:06 PM PST by Pokey78

WASHINGTON — Michael Kelly was a lucky guy.

When he stumbled upon a column of Iraqi troops during Desert Storm, they surrendered to him, piling into his car with their white flags.

He was the only reporter to find passion in the Dukakis campaign; he met his future wife, Max Greenberg, a beguiling CBS producer, on the bus.

Michael always seemed to be in the right place at the right time to get the best quote and the best story, the best jobs and the best life.

"I've had one good break after another," he told The Boston Globe, in an interview last year about how he'd revived The Atlantic Monthly in just two years as its editor. Cruising in his 1966 baby blue Mustang convertible, he said he'd had "a long series of lucky breaks and good jobs and stories and a life I like living."

He did many things well enough to provoke envy: he was a dazzling writer, editor, dancer, cook. Except he wasn't the sort you'd envy; he was too generous. He'd had his share of donnybrooks, in print and out, but he was, to use one of his own terms of endearment, a "lambikins."

When I had boyfriend troubles or work troubles, I would show up at his house in Washington. He would always be sprawling on the chaise longue I gave him as a wedding present, reading Orwell or A. J. Liebling or John O'Hara. And he would always get up and make a gourmet meal, with wine he'd chosen and herbs he'd grown, for Max and me.

He liked to say he'd had "an unusually seamless life." He was crazy about his parents, Tom and Marguerite, and wanted to become a reporter because his dad had been a reporter at The Washington Daily News.

"My father would bring me in on Saturdays to the newsroom — an old-fashioned one with the bookie in the corner, reporters bringing in beer — and I would hang out," he told our friend, Diana McLellan.

Even at 46, the father of two little boys, Michael never lost the raffish air of an altar boy who'd just talked a nun into letting him smoke a cigar in the sacristy.

He looked like a Dead End Kid, an Irish imp with blue eyes, pug nose, round face and round glasses. He was wickedly funny, a great mimic who made people laugh so hard that the section where we worked at The Times was dubbed "Happy Valley."

He had many important jobs but no phony airs. He went to parties at his local firehouse way before 9/11. He was deeply sentimental about ordinary working-class people — and maintained an angry outsider posture in his column even as he was embraced by the conservative mandarins of Washington.

"He had enviable eyes," said Leon Wieseltier, his colleague at The New Republic. "He observed more in a glance than other reporters did in a week."

The boy could write.

On the decline of liberalism: "Its animating impulse is . . . to make itself as unattractive to as many as possible: if it were a person, it would pierce its tongue."

On Ross Perot: "H. Ross Perot made his way onto the national stage, barking like a dog and occasionally biting off small pieces of himself."

On the first gulf war's bombing of Baghdad: "The tracer rounds made lines of incandescent beauty, lovely arcing curves and slow S's and parabolas of light."

He said war reporters were people "who did not want to get in harm's way but merely close enough to record the fate of those who did."

But he put himself in harm's way because he wanted to go back to Baghdad and see America kick out Saddam. "Tyranny truly is a horror. . . . It is, as Orwell wrote, a jackboot forever stomping on a human face."

Michael was the first American reporter to die in Iraq, when the Army Humvee he was riding in came under Iraqi fire and rolled into a canal south of Baghdad airport.

At an impromptu wake at his parents' house on Capitol Hill Friday, Marguerite Kelly, who writes a Washington Post column about raising children, put out her usual spread of food. And Tom told friends his son was lucky: He had had the best possible life for a journalist and died well, better than full of tubes in a hospital somewhere.

Michael died for two things he believed in: Journalism and ridding the world of jackboots.

And as Pat Moynihan said when he learned J.F.K. was dead: "I don't think there's any point in being Irish if you don't know that the world is going to break your heart eventually."   


TOPICS: Culture/Society; Editorial; Foreign Affairs; News/Current Events
KEYWORDS: michaelkelly; tribute
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I'll give Mo a break on this one; her 1 decent column she writes every year.
1 posted on 04/05/2003 2:21:06 PM PST by Pokey78
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To: Pokey78
Maybe Michael Kelly's death will snap her out of whatever funk she's been in since Michael Douglas left her and turn her back into a decent journalist.
2 posted on 04/05/2003 2:26:20 PM PST by Celtjew Libertarian (No more will we pretend that our desire/For liberty is number-cold and has no fire.)
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her outright hatred of Bush & Co. pacified for one day in years ... why must it take such death to soften the harsh tones of the piddly putress?
3 posted on 04/05/2003 2:28:51 PM PST by Steven W.
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To: Pokey78
More dribble from MO, note how she never agrees with him.
4 posted on 04/05/2003 2:29:02 PM PST by alisasny
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To: Pokey78
Yeah I'll give her this one---this was touching. I wonder what kind of conversations she and Kelly had about her columns. What a generous friend he must have been.
5 posted on 04/05/2003 2:29:19 PM PST by gopwhit
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To: Pokey78
It's the sweetest Michael Kelly tribute I've read so far...I love Maureen Dowd (until her next column).
6 posted on 04/05/2003 2:32:16 PM PST by Tex-Con-Man
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To: Pokey78
Thanks, Pokey. Enjoyed this very much. Don't care for Ms. Dowd, but she did a fine job here. Appreciate her respectful and moving farewell to her friend and ours.
7 posted on 04/05/2003 2:33:45 PM PST by solzhenitsyn ("Live Not By Lies")
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Except he wasn't the sort you'd envy; he was too generous.

and therein lies the difference.

8 posted on 04/05/2003 2:36:50 PM PST by Bobber58 (whatever it takes, for as long as it takes)
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To: Pokey78
I'll give her a break on this one too.
It is probably the best thing I've seen her write all year.
Mo, sorry you lost a friend.
Now wake up and get with the program.
9 posted on 04/05/2003 2:37:53 PM PST by tet68 (Jeremiah 51:24 ..."..Before your eyes I will repay Babylon for all the wrong they have done in Zion")
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I won't give her a break.

When I had boyfriend troubles... I would show up at his house in Washington.

How old is this broad - 13? Did she throw pebbles at his bedroom window?

10 posted on 04/05/2003 2:42:20 PM PST by Senator Pardek
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It's the same old crap from her. I couldn't figure out whether she was eulogyzing Kelly or busy telling everyone about her literary life and contacts. She's a puss bucket in continual ooze.
11 posted on 04/05/2003 2:43:28 PM PST by Rockiesrider
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Not bad for Maureen. She ignored the fact that Kelly was conservative, and focused instead on the fact that he was human and Irish. Like herself, often.
12 posted on 04/05/2003 2:46:38 PM PST by Dog Gone
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To: Pokey78
Dowd is good about writing about personal things and personalities, and terrible about writing about the Bush administration. This column isn't about John Ashcroft, so it's actually very good.
13 posted on 04/05/2003 2:47:39 PM PST by xm177e2 (Stalinists, Maoists, Ba'athists, Pacifists: Why are they always on the same side?)
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She ignored the fact that Kelly was conservative

From what I understand, he wasn't extremely conservative. He was just very turned off by Bill Clinton.

14 posted on 04/05/2003 2:50:20 PM PST by xm177e2 (Stalinists, Maoists, Ba'athists, Pacifists: Why are they always on the same side?)
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'He would always be sprawling on the chaise longue I gave him as a wedding present...'

Dowd's typo or yours?

In any case, it's nice to see Dowd put down her bottle of Jack Daniels and write something poignant for a change.

15 posted on 04/05/2003 2:50:52 PM PST by F16Fighter (Democrats -- The Party of Stalin and Chiraq)
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Extremely, no. For the Washington Post, he was an absolute redneck.

He certainly didn't drink Democrat Kool-aid.

16 posted on 04/05/2003 2:53:10 PM PST by Dog Gone
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To: Pokey78
A nice tribute, but an even better one would be for her to incorporate some of Michael Kelly's values. I didn't hear Dowd speaking out in favor of deposing Saddam; now all of a sudden she's oppposed to jackbooted thugs like Saddam. She's weak. I could always rely on Kelly to interpret current events in a way that would inspire and enlighten. And although Dowd wrote some caustic things about Clinton, she changed her tune when he shared a bottle of champaigne with her during his jaunt to South Africa. Like all liberals, she cares more about what others will think, than about what she herself thinks.
17 posted on 04/05/2003 2:55:05 PM PST by giotto
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To: Pokey78
amen
18 posted on 04/05/2003 2:56:36 PM PST by woofie
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To: Senator Pardek
I agree Senator. I give no quarter to this hag. Shamelessly attempting to capitalize on the tragey of a decent individual to resuscitate her pathetic excuse for a life. Easily fits within the undeniable rules of Dowd. Someone please post along with the obligatory pics of CZJ.
19 posted on 04/05/2003 3:03:23 PM PST by Don'tMessWithTexas
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To: F16Fighter
chaise longue

Nope, it's the proper spelling. Look it up.

Nice, touching tribute to her friend, Michael Kelly. If only I'd been so honored with his friendship.

20 posted on 04/05/2003 3:04:21 PM PST by Catspaw
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