Don't take it wrong, ladies. There are some guys (shallow ones) who base everything on appearance...but most of us don't. We do use appearance for an initial assessment (how can you not?) but once you get to know someone, their true beauty (or lack thereof) shines through.
Gum
How could we take your post wrong? It applies to men and women. If someone is an ass it shows through pretty quick and that initial attraction fades fast.