And privately too with your beloved laws.
Maybe you should ask your buddies here how many of them have engaged in sodomy.
Most of them are admitted druggies, maybe they have other problems as well.
No, again this is prudence. You cannot go into everyone's bedroom and police them. But you can send a message as to society's disapproval of homosexual behavior by keeping a law like this on the books. I don't the government snooping on me either.
What you libertarians will never understand is that if this kind of perverted society where people are performing cunnilingus on girls they met five minutes ago continues, the moral structure of this nation suffers. Self-policing obviates government policing. No public virtue, no liberty.