It's easier than you think . . .
We're currently living in a house we didn't build, which is really annoying, if you've ever built a house (our family's built 5 if you count 2 additions). Nothing is where you want it to be. When the kids all finish school and we move to a smaller house, we'll build again, and my husband has already put the "malefactor illumination circuit" into our plan list (he just put it back into the drawer.)
It's easier than you think . . .