[RnMomof7]

I am saying his indifference to her welfare is showing.."let them eat cake" . Me I want to have MY fun to he** with her...very telling about HIS character

[hellinahandcart]

I don't see him as indifferent, I see him as sensible. The virus supposedly causes cervical cancer at one end and *possibly* mouth cancer at the other. Now, I am not a doctor, but it is very obvious that while there are differences between male and female sex organs, there is absolutely no difference between male and female MOUTHS. So a female with the virus could transmit it to a partner that way, as easily as a man could. They're taking an equal risk in that case, and a very small risk at that.

And swearing off oral sex would not prevent his wife from getting cervical cancer (that's assuming one had the virus and infected the other). So again, are you suggesting that NO SEX is the way to go?

Doesn't sound like a lot of fun for either of them.