But this is merely an extension of the doctrine of striking at terrorists and those who harbor them. In most cases, it is not a strike at the host government, but where that is necessary, I don't have a problem with it.
The nature of warfare has changed in the past 100 years. In the past, aggression would manifest itself as an invasion across an international boundary or on the high seas. Today, weapons of mass destruction can be launched from within a country against another without an invasion, or infiltrators can instigate attacks in a neighboring country using the element of surprise. We call those infiltrators "terrorists."
It is unreasonable for a country to have to absorb a blow before acting against a particular threat, especially when those responsible can simply disappear into a civilian population after an attack. The only means to protect against such attacks is to destroy the people who are planning them wherever they may be.