[BrooklynGOP]

It's too late. She already defines herself by what others think of her

That would be true if she was to take your advice.

[krb]

Nope...While it certainly would show the verity of the case if she were to do it, I am merely predicting that it is too late for the mother to do anything to stop it.

The mere fact that this girl is telling the pushover mother that she wants to nastify her body is clue enough that she defines herself by what other's think.