So far, it looks as if I have done things properly considering my situation. Since 1999, I saved approximately 40% of my take home pay. That's not counting 401K, which got about 15% over that same time period. At the same time, I reduced all my debts to 0. When I talk to my friends and family, all the say is how the hell do you do it? My grandma told me to pay yourself first. Write yourself a check before you pay anyone else. And so, every payday, sort of as a ritual, I write myself a check for the predetermined amount and deposit it in my money market account. Simple.
I am closing on my first home this month, but I don't believe I have gotten sucked into the real estate bubble. It's a home way up in the northen tip of the state, and it really does appear to be a good value, or else I wouldn't have bought it. It's a 20 year mortgage with 20% down. 6% interest. So it's not a case of easy credit either. The mortgage payment will represent approx. 25% of my take home pay. I think I did ok.
My only remaining concern is liquidity. I am spending most of it to get this house. But I have a savings plan for the next two quarters which should get me back up to a good level of cash reserve(about 4 months income.) I am planning on making some life changes too. I am going to leave my job next year, around February, and start my own small business. It's going to be a microbusiness. Start up for less than 5K, with me as the sole employee. My company is downsizing and downsizing some more, and my department is not long for day, I don't believe. I prefer to be proactive about it, and anyway, I want to be my own boss, and so I will take my chances.
So I really haven't invested in the market at all, besides 401K, and there the company match was as much a rationale as anything else. I invested just enough to get the full benefit of that. I don't know why I am describing my situation online. I guess I am hoping for either a) validation or b) some good pointers. In the meantime, I'll keep on reading these reports.
.....I think you're smart to avail yourself of investing discussions on the net....I wish we'd of had it when I was 34...all we had back then was Louis Rukeyser on Friday nights....let's face it, investing can be a lonely business...the anonymity of the net has helped relieve some of that....
Good luck to everybody!
Stonewalls