You're painting with an awfully broad brush...
Tailhook was nothing but orchestrated political theater, designed to further the goals of self-absorbed Women in the Military (TM) who believe that their right to do any job, no matter how biologically or socially unsuitable, supersedes the interest of the U.S. military in winning wars.
As for the politics of it, you are on the right track....but the plain fact is that it was the officers who created the situation by their lack of control and decency. The left just exploited it.