WHOOPS, I just posted to you that "you'll find no argument from me." I was referring only to your first sentence where you state she has only herself to blame. I don't see how this point above is made by her attitude.
"Because of him, it's just ruined everyone's lives," she said.
If you are aware of how Scapgoating works (I am) Both of above statments, particularly linked, are textbook examples of verbally setting up a 'scapegoat'. If not actually linked in the interview than only the last part is textbook.