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My Weekend with a Gun-grabber
Pure Vanity | 6/24/02

Posted on 06/24/2002 8:54:55 AM PDT by pabianice

I spent the weekend at one of my best college friend's houses. She lives in a very expensive neighborhood in Connecticut, about an hour and a half from NYC, and is married to a highly educated, highly paid chemical engineer who designs and produces some of the world's most innovative and advanced industrial materials. He is extremely smart, highly motivated, exceptionally inventive, and when the topic of guns came up, as violent an opponent of the Second Amendment as I have met. Just the topic brings him to the brink of physical violence.

Let me try and summarize our "discussion" (remember, I was in my friend's house, and she and I are very close and think the world of one another, so the vehemence of my argument was muted in her behalf).

Here are my friend's husband's arguments (for simplcity, let's call him "Joe"):

He said no one should be allowed to own a gun. When I asked why, he said, 'because then I could get one.' When I asked why that would be a problem, Joe replied that if he had a gun, there are about a dozen people he knows he probably would already have shot because he is so angry with them.

I thought he was joking, but he wasn't. Joe then said that, under current law, even working in New York, because of his good record and high social status, he could probably get a license to carry a concealed weapon. And knowing that he would then probably use it on people he really hates, how could I support the right for anyone to carry a weapon?

I replied that his unwillingness or inability to carry a gun should in no way interfere with my right to carry. He shouted that because he kneew he would be dangerous with a gun, no one should be allowed to carry one. To so allow me to carry one, he, too, would have the same right and would probably then shoot someone who pissed him off. He was not joking, I realized. His brother, among others, has been so troublesome to him over the years that he said he would probably have shot him by now had he had the opportunity and means.

So there is the arguement from the mouth of a representative of the top of the Liberal hierarchy: I can't be trusted with a gun, so no one should have the right to have one.

We then moved on to terrorism and the right to protect yourself from Islamic lunatics and their allies on the Left. Same response. It is safer for no one in the U.S. to be armed than to allow ourselves to protect ourselves and families. Joe insisted that we are a greater danger to ourselves and families if we choose to carry a pistol than we are from Usama bin Laden (BTW, we are all Jewish, which made me even more incredulous as the argument progressed). He admitted that we need to somehow protect ourselves, but insisted that the right way is to station troops around the country to do so, although again, he had a real problem with actually giving the troops ammunition for their weapons, as our troops would be more likely to "repeat the Rodney King assault if they had the chance" rather than actually protect us from terrorists. In the same vein, he insisted that police are little more than an occupation army whose principal purpose is to brutalize minorities and keep them from ever succeeding.

In the interest of peace in my friend's home, I let the argument end rather than say what I really wanted to say to him. She is married to this guy and they argue all the time over politics, but that's their choice and I am in no position to suggest she find someone else.

So there it is. Some of our most intelligent, highly educated, highest paid, most productive members of society are so dead set against the right to self-defense that they will use every resource avaialble to them to see that we are left defenseless against crime and terrorism. That's the situation. The only solution I have, unfortunately, is to let them be victims of violence. For only that is likely to make them change their minds.


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1 posted on 06/24/2002 8:54:56 AM PDT by pabianice
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To: pabianice
There was a great post here about a year ago, it was an article from a psychologist stating that the gun-control fanatics are "projecting" their problems on to others. That they are the ones who would just shoot people at stop signs if they had guns. That they are the ones who would pull their pistols every time they got into an argument. They deal with that by projecting their problems on to these mythical redneck gun-owners.

Your experience would seem to back up the article. I will try to find it for you.

2 posted on 06/24/2002 8:58:49 AM PDT by Rodney King
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To: pabianice
He said no one should be allowed to own a gun. When I asked why, he said, 'because then I could get one.'

Figures - circular logic.

This shows the lack of intelligence of the gun-grabbing left.

3 posted on 06/24/2002 8:59:36 AM PDT by mhking
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To: pabianice
http://www.freerepublic.com/fo cus/news/597777/posts

Read the above link. It describes your friend perfectly.
4 posted on 06/24/2002 9:00:50 AM PDT by Rodney King
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To: pabianice
Your friend's husband may well be highly educated, intelligent, motivated, creative and highly-paid. He is also (perhaps dangerously) mentally unstable by his own admission: he said if he had a gun he would use it on people. As a friend, you should very discreetly ask you friend if he has manifested any violent behaviour towards her or her children, and if so, urge a consultation with his rabbi, or perhaps psychiatric care.
5 posted on 06/24/2002 9:01:30 AM PDT by CatoRenasci
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To: pabianice
He said no one should be allowed to own a gun. When I asked why, he said, 'because then I could get one.' When I asked why that would be a problem, Joe replied that if he had a gun, there are about a dozen people he knows he probably would already have shot because he is so angry with them.

He is partly correct. He should not EVER be permitted to own a firearm, since he seriously needs mental health assistance quite immediately.

If he has expressed geniune desire to kill people, you should seriously consider warning authorities, since it does not take a gun to kill. There are many devices with which one may quickly and easily kill others.

The rest of us will continue to own firearms, to protect ourselves from people who harbor the uncontrolled rage this man exhibits.

6 posted on 06/24/2002 9:02:01 AM PDT by Lazamataz
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To: pabianice
"Joe replied that if he had a gun, there are about a dozen people he knows he probably would already have shot because he is so angry with them. "

You know there are places where people like Joe can get the professional help they so badly need.

7 posted on 06/24/2002 9:02:01 AM PDT by Kerberos
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To: Rodney King
I think your friend should run, not walk away from this guy.
8 posted on 06/24/2002 9:02:10 AM PDT by philetus
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To: pabianice
Joe replied that if he had a gun, there are about a dozen people he knows he probably would already have shot because he is so angry with them.

I believe at that point I would have thought of a way to make it a short evening. He obviously has some "anger issues". In short, the guy's not stable mentally to make such a remark given the content of the discussion, which was obviously serious.

9 posted on 06/24/2002 9:02:12 AM PDT by ladtx
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What ever gave you the idea that these people were 'intelligent'......in your words.

Usually logical rational thought is a prerequisite to being considered intelligent!

10 posted on 06/24/2002 9:02:55 AM PDT by OldFriend
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To: pabianice
In the interest of peace in my friend's home, I let the argument end rather than say what I really wanted to say to him.

Wise.

He might have meat-cleavered you for disagreeing with him.

11 posted on 06/24/2002 9:03:07 AM PDT by Lazamataz
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To: pabianice
Wow. Someone needs some anger management training. Now.
12 posted on 06/24/2002 9:03:54 AM PDT by RogueIsland
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To: ladtx
I believe at that point I would have thought of a way to make it a short evening. He obviously has some "anger issues". In short, the guy's not stable mentally to make such a remark given the content of the discussion, which was obviously serious.

Additionally, after leaving the house, I would have contacted the state's mental-health authorities and described the man's self-proclaimed desires to kill people.

This person is very likely a menace to society.

13 posted on 06/24/2002 9:04:51 AM PDT by Lazamataz
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To: pabianice
This is typical of the mind set about guns, but this is not limited just to Libs. I know many 'moderates' who are very anti-gun. A long time ago I discovered that many of them bought into the 'bad guy will use my gun against me' argument. That's a theme of many t.v. shows, movies, and of course, a mantra of the Brady bunch.
14 posted on 06/24/2002 9:04:51 AM PDT by Fracas
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To: Rodney King
I used to work for a guy who had, what he called, a "reverse" golden rule, which was something like "We expect other people to treat us the way we're going to treat them."
15 posted on 06/24/2002 9:05:27 AM PDT by geaux
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To: pabianice
I wouldn't describe him as "highly educated". Perhaps he spent all his education opportunity on chemical engineering and none on anything else. Sorry about your sister, being married to this guy can't be much fun.
16 posted on 06/24/2002 9:05:47 AM PDT by Octar
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To: Lazamataz
Additionally, after leaving the house, I would have contacted the state's mental-health authorities and described the man's self-proclaimed desires to kill people.

This person is very likely a menace to society.

Excellent point.

17 posted on 06/24/2002 9:06:24 AM PDT by ladtx
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To: pabianice
I thought you said he was smart?

If he shouted at you during this discussion as you described, and he claims if given the opportunity he would have shot a dozen people including his brother, then I agree, he should not have a gun. But he is the prime example for why people like you, me and his wife should be allowed to carry.

18 posted on 06/24/2002 9:07:06 AM PDT by monkeyshine
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He said no one should be allowed to own a gun. When I asked why, he said, 'because then I could get one.' When I asked why that would be a problem, Joe replied that if he had a gun, there are about a dozen people he knows he probably would already have shot because he is so angry with them.

I thought he was joking, but he wasn't. Joe then said that, under current law, even working in New York, because of his good record and high social status, he could probably get a license to carry a concealed weapon.

So what, exactly, is stopping him now?

19 posted on 06/24/2002 9:07:20 AM PDT by tacticalogic
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