No, what is highly presumptuous is your edict on what and who constitutes a "family" that is entitled to grieve/mourne/play/not play...and the manner in which they do or not do so....in fact i'll go out on a limb and say it's rather PREPOSTEROUS.
Darryl Kile 1968-2002
and speaking of Family....he was only 31yrs old, and leaves behind his wife, 5yr old twins and a 10 month old baby.
I heard a report that said his father died suddenly (heart?) in his early 40's.... a death so unexpected at his young age - and being such a star on the team was shocking to his team mates, the opposing team...and all his fans.
God rest his soul, and comfort his family and friends.