You're right. I lost my temper on Illbay and my post #45 was rightly deleted. He's banned now for his later posts to others, but I hope it's only temporary.
Many of us are parents and this is a parents' worst nightmare. This girl has been gone for so long, it doesn't look good, but we must still hope and pray for her. Also for her younger 9 year-old sister who has gone through so much.