[xsmommy]

. Had he shown his anger more often, it might have given her a little spirit

Perhaps, Adam, you are right. perhaps had he showns his anger, she would have murdered him, instead of the kids.

[Lanza]

I don't think we know that he didn't show his anger towards her. BTW, would you have sympathy for Rusty Yates if he broke down and at least took some blame and said "I failed my wife and children. I should have never left her alone with them. I didn't get her the help she needed, I wouldn't listen to friends and medical professionals." If he would just show an ounce of remorse and feel somewhat responsible. Nope, he says he's being unfairly portrayed by the girlfriend. He says he did everything he could for her and the medical community let them down. Nope. No regrets for perfect Rusty. As a parent, when my children have hurt themselves I blame myself and think "I should have been watching them better." As a parent, you feel a responsibility to protect them, and even when it is not your fault you tend to blame yourself. Not good old Rusty. He says he doesn't see how he could have even prevented this. Hmm..