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Why Sex Is Private
Toogood Reports ^ | February 6, 2002 | Henry Makow Ph.D.

Posted on 02/06/2002 4:41:59 PM PST by Starmaker

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1 posted on 02/06/2002 4:41:59 PM PST by Starmaker
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To: Starmaker
God is love.
Love is blind.
Ray Charles is blind.

Ray Charles is God!

Oh uh,er,I remember sex,somewhat.

2 posted on 02/06/2002 4:45:08 PM PST by tet68
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To: Starmaker
The real reason is this: when you are busy making love, you are not paying attention, making it possible for predators to attack and eat you. Those with the instinct to seek out a hidden place had an evolutionary advantage. After the brain evolved, various rationalizations for this behavior were developed.
3 posted on 02/06/2002 4:49:08 PM PST by proxy_user
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To: Starmaker
Sex should be private -- one partner at a time -- perhaps two.
5 posted on 02/06/2002 4:53:34 PM PST by jerrymdss
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To: Starmaker
Good article. I hate sex scenes.....it cheapens it and makes me feel like a voyeur.
6 posted on 02/06/2002 5:01:43 PM PST by Sungirl
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To: Starmaker
Nice article
7 posted on 02/06/2002 5:15:42 PM PST by Centurion2000
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To: Starmaker
Well put!
8 posted on 02/06/2002 5:27:07 PM PST by ctdonath2
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To: Starmaker
Good article.
9 posted on 02/06/2002 5:32:27 PM PST by lsee
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To: innocentbystander
Sorry, but Sex is just sex for some; and no one individual has the right to define it for everyone else; religious or not.

But what if this traditional view of sex is the most rationally defensible? If so, then it is no mere individual definition, but a truth theoretically knowable by everybody of sound mind. We can't "define" truth for somebody else, we can only discover it and share this discovery.

Now here is the pivotal question: ought we to base our laws and/or our social practices on discovered truth, or on mere private will? Are we to govern ourselves by the rule of reason, as republican government holds, or are we to give ourselves over to irrational passion, and become a nation full of petty tyrants who will not listen to reason?

10 posted on 02/06/2002 5:54:28 PM PST by Dumb_Ox
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To: innocentbystander
Doesnt the "rule of reason" suggest that those best able to reason will hold sex in a positive context

I'd say "proper" rather than "positive." The lecher certainly thinks sex is a positive thing(even a stopped clock is right twice a day).

No one has come up with a realistic way of legislating the effects of human hormones

Last I checked, I rule my hormones; they don't rule me. They somewhat usurped their proper place in my teen years, but I have since restored justice to my bodily kingdom. From personal experience, I can attest that hormonal control is possible, and far better than the alternative.

so what is the point, accept to teach truth and responsibility?

Teaching truth and responsibility is certainly a mighty strong point, and sometimes the law is indeed a good teacher. Discouraging vice is a good way to indirectly encourage virtue, because it helps develop the habit of self-control.

But I think governmental law is besides the point of this article, since modest societies can combat immodesty through non-legal avenues. The author is noting how we often do not respect the goodness of sex. A society that respected and cherished human sexuality would neither tolerate such widespread meat markets and guilt-free pornophilic "entertainments," nor would it eulogize fellatio on our Free Republic threads. This mutilation of human sexuality cannot help but influence our idea of what it is to be human. And if we change this idea too much, we could very well reject the principles of humanity upon which our nation is founded: That all men are created equal, and endowed by their Creator with inalienable rights. Would you like to see what happens when these principles are rejected? I don't think I would.

12 posted on 02/06/2002 6:27:21 PM PST by Dumb_Ox
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To: innocentbystander
Actually, from a fully scientific perspective; your hormones rule everything you do, voluntary or involuntary. It would take too much time and too many words to explain this in an epistemological sense, but it is provable nonetheless.

Oh, nonsense on stilts. This isn't science, let alone a "fully scientific perspective." It's materialistic determinism, which more often than not destroys both liberty and reason. Just look at Marx's own materialistic determinism.

I think sometimes were are a bit too high-minded in our assumtions that we are so much in charge of our biology, as though it wasnt hormones behind the firing of every impulse in our brains.

So we aren't responsible for following or not following our hormonal impulses?

I think any look at society would suggest that laws are practically irrelavent when it comes to sex; some people will follow laws and some (most in my opinion) will not.

Can you name any of these societies? Even the liberal US doesn't allow kids to buy porn, and prosecutes those who distribute it to minors. That's certainly controlling sex. Why are you making a special provision for sex? Though it is a wonderful thing, there's no proof that it is in its own special category.

'Proper' is such a loaded word, because it is subjective, while positive is a bit more flexible and personal. i.e: you can pick my 'proper' from your perspective, but you would be hard pressed to pick my 'positive' which is a personal evaluation of the event.

Yeah, I'm speaking from a "subjective" perspective, and you're speaking from a "personal" perspective, and there's nothing we can do to change our minds at all, since reason is a myth. Why are you arguing, if you believe so?

May I suggest you read Professor George's essay The Clash of Orthodoxies? He takes apart what I perceive to be your underlying philosophy.

14 posted on 02/06/2002 7:05:37 PM PST by Dumb_Ox
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To: proxy_user
Dude, you rock. Stick around.
15 posted on 02/06/2002 7:10:40 PM PST by ConsistentLibertarian
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People are also vulnerable to predators while they are sleeping, yet as far as I know (I'm no anthropologist) there are no people who still lead a Stone Age existence who all disperse to hidden, private places in the forest when they go to sleep every night. It's much safer for them to sleep huddled up in a group. So then why would human beings not have evolved to seek out the protection of our fellows while we are having sex?

Again, as far as I know, there are no animals who won't have sex in front of other members of their species so long as they don't feel threatened. But according to your argument, shouldn't they also have evolved to seek out privacy during sex?

To sum up: if private sex is such a great strategy for avoiding predators, why haven't more other species discovered it?

17 posted on 02/07/2002 1:10:08 AM PST by Ultima Thule
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To: Dumb_Ox
Are we kin?

LOL!

18 posted on 02/07/2002 1:40:01 AM PST by Caipirabob
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To: Starmaker
Somebody sent me an EMail joke yesterday. It said "Did you know there's something women can eat to completely shut down their sex drive?" [the answer is "wedding cake"] - [rimshot]
19 posted on 02/07/2002 1:45:54 AM PST by The Raven
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To: Starmaker
Thanks for posting this. I think you found the truth in this article. Such a rare find.
20 posted on 02/07/2002 1:39:34 PM PST by Aquamarine
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