Makes no difference.....she is still at the same level of emotional funtionality or in this case dysfuntion. Think of peoples emotional level as gears......all diferent sizes....different numbers of teeth on the gears.....different size, shape teeth on those gears.....all these gears are floating around spinning....you, as one of those gears are attracted to another gear.....you either mesh or the sparks fly and you bounce off in search of one that fits....we only develop lasting relationships with those gears that we mesh with....plain and simple.....whether one party is hiding stuff or not...people will try and make it work, gears grinding and sparking but the longer the relationship lasts the smoother the gears must have meshed.
This is really sick stuff.
I feel for the judge-it has naught to do with her except that she may have been living a life without the full benefit of the joy of sexualfulfillment. Who knows.
At any rate-I agree with the poster above who said this may have been all about defusing a stituation that could have been fodder for blackmail. But it is sad, nonetheless.
That grown men do this kind of filth-without even KNOWING their partners is shocking, really dirty homosexual behavior. I hope they were at least using safety precautions, we know that at least ONE of these perverts was married. (I hope she has herself checked for AIDS. I don't really care what her nasty husband does.)