I thought that was changing in the US. Anyway, if a woman wanted a divorce and could not get one for whatever reason, I doubt that she would be a joy to come home to at the end of a day.
in reality, fathers, men in other words , tend to make their children and the mothers of their children the TARGETS... or how many more times do you need to read how an angry man decided he needed to kill his children and their mother just to make a point?
Listen....let's be honest....men are the dominant species...not better....not more valuable...just the dominant gender....and with that comes RESPONSIBILITY.....a large , large portion of today's (yesterday's) evil in the world lies at the feet of men....the wars...the starvation...the enslaveing of people...this is man's doing...
oh how I wish that my gender had the smarts and the pride to not put up with it...to not become appendages to men....but that is our biology....as much as I dislike it....we are the nesters and the nuturers...we are not the ones to set cultural policy...we go along, as we have always done....
so make up all these phony-baloney evil arguements against women ...how WE are to blame...how WE want divorce...it's absurd...
I come from two living parents that have been married for over 50 years, and my hubby of 26 years has parents alive that are also married for over 50 years...we feel like we are anachromisms....
you want to stay married?...try friendship first...companionship....similar values....and it doesn't hurt to come from stock that believes in fidelity and marriage...