Husbands used to be legally in full control. So two hundred years ago, I would not have minded holding them responsible for marital success.
But this is the era of feminist jurisprudence, and in the 50% of cases where wife is at fault, wife should not come out on top.
There you go again, saying it's the women's fault! Hmmmm? If your wife takes advantage of you - whose fault is that - HERS???? or the dummy who let her. Maybe if the husband would look more closely at what kind of person he's marrying, instead of what kind of body he's marrying, he wouldn't get taken to the cleaners so often.
Sorry, your argument doesn't hold water. Since God wrote the Bible, He has not changed his mind; He still holds the husband responsible for the relationship! I guess my Pastor is the only one willing to preach the truth to husbands.