Same here, then donate to the local libraries.
Not me. I'll get a fresh copy for all I want to read it. Let's not dilute the sales figures by sharing.
Besides, it would take a shotgun blast to the face to get me to part with Hell to Pay. BKO, herself, wrote me the most wonderful autograph. She had beautiful handwriting.
{sob}
You're a trusting soul, Reg. I learned years ago not to "loan" books, because even honest people who sincerely intend to return them, often don't.
Rather than be annoyed with a friend, I've stopped loaning books, buying several copies when appropriate, just giving the books away, making it known that no return is expected. Costs a few dollars, saves a few friendships. And sometimes makes the friendship a little stronger, and triggers a reciprocal gift.