Watch what they do, not what they say they would do. This thead demonstrates how some men would really behave in your scenario: Teen testifies he was totally teacher's pet. Take notes. I did. Some of the responses changed my perceptions of those involved.
Real women want real men. Arrested development at the giggling locker room stage of euphemisms for female anatomy is so unattractive.
My problem is only with the men who seem to have no sense of where and when such fun is appropriate and where is may not be, and maybe with the men who don't/won't teach them the difference.